aim54x wrote:Your 35-70 will be useful but not wide
Actually, in the daze of yore, when I used to shoot several weddings each weekend (on filum, digital and DX were still to be even thought of, let alone invented) the widest I would be shooting with was 35mm.
As Chris says, all DX lenses may be used on the D700, and in that regard you actually have two
modes of operation. In the first instance, and this is the default
mode, you can shoot in DX
mode. There won't be vignetting, but your images will be a nudge under 6MP, being DX. Basically, you'll be using your D700 as if it were a D70.
Mode two is to shoot in FX
mode, which will mean full FX image sizes and resolution, and lots of vignetting.
You would be better off getting lenses that are not designated as DX. Those lenses will be able to handle the FX sensor with ease.
Given that you have the 35-70, I'd suggest a couple of relatively low cost but very useful options for you: grab the 50 f/1.8 and 85mm f/1.8. These two, combined, will still be way less expensive than the 24-70, and they are also faster. And lighter.
If you are worried that 35 isn't wide enough, perhaps grab a Nikkor 24mm prime as well, but on FX, at that wide an angle, I'd be quite concerned about introducing distortion into the images.
If budget is not a concern for you, get the 50mm f/1.4 and the 70-200, and then maybe the 24-70, although I still think that 24 is too wide for weddings.
The 80-400? It may be useful at a wedding, and especially at its wider end, and moreso if you don't get the 70-200.
But, a question ...
I have to shoot my daughters wedding
You
have to shoot this? This is your daughter's wedding; shouldn't you be giving her away? Enjoying yourself?