Onyx wrote:
I don't see it has having harmed the kids in anyway. IMHO kids are harmed more when their over-protective parents try too hard to shield them from the realities of the world, and end up creating a fictionalised childhood by surrounding the kid with what the parents perceive as positive and happy situations.
Hi Onyx
I’m sure that you didn’t mean to have a go at me or any other parents for that matter with this comment, but could I venture to say that it’s a little misguided and what’s more I’m not sure that you understand the point that I was trying to make.
Let me create a hypothetical situation for you.
You answer an ad calling for people of Non-Caucasian appearance to
model for a professional photographer. You front up at the appointed time, sign the
model release and enter the studio. After a short series of introductions to the assistant and photographer they start to insult you with racist and derogatory comments, they let you stew on them for five to ten minutes all the while taking photos of you and then say “we’re only kidding mate, were doing a photo essay on anger as a political statement against the Howard government, so we only insulted you to invoke a response, really we don’t mean anything by it. Thanks for your help, we’ll will mail you a cheque for $50 and here is a movie voucher for your troubles, sorry.”
Do you honestly expect me to believe that you would simply take it in you stride? Nup you and anyone for that matter, would be pissed off and quite rightly so! In fact I would like to bet that even as an adult the memory of this would stay with you for life.
My point is that the children wouldn’t understand why this was done, just as you wouldn’t understand it either if the above situation was to happen to you. I’m not about “creating a fictionalised childhood by surrounding the kid with what the parents perceive as positive and happy situations” I just don’t believe in handing kids knifes to play with just so they can find out what it is like to be cut! Children will find out about the big bad world soon enough, no need for adults to throw them in at the deep end. Let them have their time of innocence I say.
What’s more the in the article Greenberg says she didn't touch or speak to the children. "Except to say hello, goodbye and thank you. And sorry."
If she hasn’t done anything wrong by them, then what is she apoligising to the children for?
Anyways here is an image of my two boys at the beach, it was taken from the point of an observer only and whilst it is not technically perfect with respect to lighting, composure and background I believe that it also shows several raw emotions, “Love and happiness” and that it is a beautiful photograph of kids.
I’m sorry if this post is considered offensive, over emotive and perhaps too political, but we need to stop fucking with children’s emotions for profit. They are the future of the world and we have a responsibility as a society to see to it that they are loved, well cared for and nurtured during their upbringing to ensure they won’t be angry at the world when they grow up. God knows we don’t need any more angry young adults in society do we?
For the record I have read all of Thomas Hawk’s blogs on the subject along with having seen all of the images and as such I don’t feel that this is a trivial matter.
To all Mods: Please feel free to remove this post if you find it an unsuitable and offensive response, but I was asked “what do you think.” And that’s what I think.