Rooz wrote:Which term? Sensual? I do not accept that sensuality implies nudity. Nor do I accept that nudity, in and of itself, is inherently sensual nor sexual.
yes, sensual when used in the
context of nudity does have a sexual connotation.
Does it? I don't accept that.
I accept that, to you, that connection probably exists.
But take an image of a newborn infant. Nude. Exquisitely and discreetly illuminated.
Sensual? Quite likely.
Sexual? Probably not.
why else would we say it ?
Why indeed? I don't see, nor automatically make, any such connection. Thusly, that's not something I might say.
if you meet a lady at a bar sitting with her husband and said she's looking "sensual" tonight it may earn you a smack in the mouth.
That would probably say more about the absence of emotional maturity on the part of the husband (or wife) than anything else. I know lots of ladies to whom I would happily make such a comment. In the presence of their partner, and also in the presence of mine. Hell, I even know a couple of guys to whom I might even make such a comment.
tell her she looks beautiful and he'll give you a big grin. again, context. we have a complex language where words used by their very defintion may imply various meanings depending on the context of their use.
I think much of this also derives from the levels of emotional maturity we may have attained. How defensive are we about certain things?
One thing that I've observed is that many males are very insecure, and very defensive, when there is absolutely no need to be so. This is very true for males from their mid to late teens through to the late forties, and frequently well beyond. Females are are far less insecure in that regard.
It is those insecurities in the male that lead to the sort of reactions that you describe; those are reactions that are absent from my repertoire.
"the sun is hot"
"the pan is hot"
"that chick is hot.
in itself the term "hot" can be argued has no sexual connotation. but this is purely based on context. i'm assuming you wouldnt want to route the sun or the pan but the girl is a different matter based on the context of the use of the term. this is also based on the culture you are living in...different cultures, different contexts again.
I would happily offer the chick some shade, or perhaps a refreshing drink.
I recently had an interesting encounter with a rather attractive person. It seemed that we had much in common - similar musical tastes, played the same musical instrument, birthdates were very close, similar EU parentage with post-WWII Australian upbringings ...
Now, you need to understand that, something like 30 years' photographic background, I know that the E6 photographic process produces slides.
Or transparencies.
So, to me, the term "tranny" had a very different initial connotation to his, despite perhaps some mutual and common initial intent.
There endeth that relationship.
My point there is very similar culture, backgrounds, almost everything.
Too much, perhaps.
But the nape of one's neck may also be sensual. Intensely so, in certain circumstances. I'm wondering what clothes it needs to be wearing? Should one turn up one's collar?
precisely, the nape of a persons neck CAN indeed be sensual arousing a physical response. so by saying that the photos are sensual you are indeed quite clearly saying that they invoke a physical arousal.
You're saying that they do; I have never said any such thing. I am highlighting that they might, nothing more.
Your reaction is different from mine. That is neither good, nor bad. It is merely different. That is all.
this is completely different in context from saying the smell of a loaf of bread is sensual. that is the nature of the term itself when used in varying contexts. i dont have anything against sensual...you seem to think i want to ban the term or the felling. nothing of the sort. i just dont think it should be used or evoked by using underage kids.
What is "underage" ?
Again, it is you that is doing the interpretation here. You seem to be defining a problem where I fail to see one. And that gets a whole lot worse ...
Where's the difference between a family's tasteful semi-clad or nude portraits, of the family, as against that same family's tasteful semi-clad or nude portraits of the family's members?
well, thats like saying that having sex with your wife in your private bedroom is pornography. it is not. it is sex. pornography is the display thereof of that sexual act to a wider audience for the purpose of sexual arousal. and once again, we refer to context. in this case we refer to the context of our western society in australia. would a nude photo of a family on the wall be "accepted" in this society ? i doubt it.
Are you qualified to talk on behalf of the whole of Australia's population? If not ...
I would contend that some people in Australia would be horrified at this concept. I would also contend that there are many who might embrace it. I certainly have encountered it, and it has not bothered me at all.
And let's take, for a moment, your comment comparing sex and pornography: what about a couple - married or not - who might videotape themselves engaging in sex. They may then later view that recording for ... who knows what for? Who cares? Is that pornography? What if they use that for their own arousal; is that pornography? What if they share that with some friends, as some may do? Is that porn?
Who am I to pass judgment on that? I'm certainly not qualified to do so; are you?
i think we'd ALL think it a little bizzare.
Well, no. Not all, and not at all.
but put that in nigeria and the family portrait of nigerians like that is probably ok.
Why Nigeria? Why not South Africa?
What about Sweden?
So, where is the problem in allowing each person to exercise their own judgment?
this is not a question for me. this is a question for you. you are the one that said it wasnt sexual, it was sensual.
Actually, no; it is a question for you.
Yes I see sensuality, but not sexuality. That is my assessment. That is me, exercising my judgment. I have no issues with that, and I have no issues with you exercising your judgment. And if that means that you come to a different end point, I have no issues with that.
But it seems that if I come to a different endpoint, you might have issues with that. Is that problematic for you? If so, why? If not, then what, exactly, is the issue that you have ?
so i'm asking you, where is that line between sensual and sexual ? why is it not ok for everyone to make their own judgement ? well, thats just not the way our society works. love it or not.
But in fact, it is. Who knows what you do, within the confines of your home?
With respect, who even cares ?
we live in a democracy with laws and acceptable standards in society based on that particualr society's culture. laws are not based on the judgement of individuals, they are based on what society, the state and the legal process deem as standards by which we are goverened.
All of which are set by, to use your own words, "the judgment of individuals". Or is parliament no longer comprised of indiviuduals?
So, where is the problem in allowing each viewer to draw their own connection?
i believe this has been done to death.
But it is precisely the point. Avoiding it doesn't make it go away.
Perhaps, but as has been already noted, Henson has been doing this for years. I've been aware of his work for at least 15. What he's done here is nothing new for him.
if he has done these kinds of images which depict 12yo's nude in this way then it may not be new but imo its still wrong. i dont know his work so cant comment.
And therein lies a very serious problem: how in the world do you feel you are able to even offer a comment on a subject, the content of which you now admit you have zero experience of?
Zero experience of Henson's work - which is the subject of this thread - surely brings your credibility in this topic to ... zero.
Sorry, I'm not trying to flame you here, but really ...
And as I've also noted above, the front page work was all done by a journo, seemingly to push her own barrow, and perhaps her own prejudices. Don't you find that just a little bit troublesome?
not particulalry.
Serious problem #2: journalists are there to report the stories, not to be the story. Self interest needs to be declared, regardless of the realm. Journalistic integrity needs to be maintained, and in this instance, I don't see that this has occurred.
Please pay attention to the details. Parking in a no-standing area may have an ill effect upon others, and thus doesn't fall within the boundaries of my precept. Likewise, shoplifting and insurance fraud also does have an ill effect upon others.
thats irrelevant to the argument. as i said, "i'm not hurting anyone" is not a defence or breaking a law however stupid that law may be and however justified you may feel in breaking it.
As I said, pay attention to the details: I never claimed any such defence, I merely stated my precept.
Voting: I have a problem with the concept of compulsory voting in an alleged democracy; surely we should be free to withhold our vote where we consider that nobody is deserving of the privilege of my vote. But again, that is irrelevant within this context.
actually, no its not irrelevant at all. its actually completely relevant to your premace of the way in which you live you life. we all like to be ideological like that and maybe a tad rebellious. but at the end of the day, you comply with that law despite the fact it bears no ill to others.
Where did I state which laws I comply with? I don't believe that I have. Your statements are seriously flawed, because you're working under potentially false assumptions.
Kind of like commenting on the work of an artist when you've not been exposed to that work.
But within the context of what I have stated, when and if I break the law, if I'm caught, then I will be prepared to accept the consequences of those breaches of the law. I have no issues with that at all.
so why is this an issue here ? he broke the law.
Who said that?
The police haven't yet decided whom to charge, let alone what charges to lay.
And it is surely the courts' job to determine if the laws have been broken, and by whom.
But there is no inherent connection between a loaf of bread being baked, which can be very sensual, and a naked body, which may, or may not, be sensual.
going round in circles again. descibing a naked body as sensual is a very differnt context to saying a loaf of bread is sensual. the sescription of a naked body as sensual does have sexual or arousing connotations. perhaps not in the Gary Stark world but certianly in Australia as a whole.
But again, how is it that you are able to make such a call, on behalf of "Australia as a whole"?
I would respectfully suggest that your realm of expertise might be restricted to just yourself and your family, just as mine is restricted to myself and my family. Any suggestion by you to extend your opions beyond that realm is at best optimistic on your part, and perhaps verging upon offensive to some who might not agree with your PoV.