Righto Max, you asked for some advice from me so here it is ... I was going to put it in a PM but if I keep it open I will add to the fun for everyone!
There has been some very good advice floated by other members of which one of the biggies is the old relax and keep breathing routine! Dont get stressed, just take a moment every now and then to step back, look at the light, look at the situation, determine what looks good at the moment in time and if you do not see anything obvious move onto the next idea.
Here is a rought timeline that you should be working to ... cut and paste as required.
Go to the grooms place and get a few images of the guys getting ready, having a coffee (or a beer) doing ties, with mum and all that jazz. do it relaxed and dont try too hard to set images up.
Go to the brides house and get her getting ready, last minute photos with the family etc. Use window light (non direct sunlight) place yourself near the window, get a little
modelling on the bride and take it from there.
Leave for the wedding venue and be there 10-15 minutes ahead of the bride (tell her to take her time getting there!).
Get to the church and place a tripod in the corner and then begin making a few candid images (groom looking nervous, mum crying etc). Use the SB-600 in TTL
mode but pull back the exposure on itto -1/3 or 1/23. Set the ISO to 800, shoot at about f5.6 and use a slower shutter speed of about 1/25 th or 1/30th for candids inside... this will let you get the ambience of the church while getting some ambient light.
During the ceremony place yourself in a position where you can get two types of images, one being a wide shot of the group with the family and friends in the back (place the camera on a tripod and do this using available light, again at 800 ISO using a wide aperture). Once you have this image use a telephoto lens so that you can zoom in on the couple (use the tripod with this lens as well). The ideal lens for this is the 80-200 2.8... chances are you may be able to rent one of these lenses for the weekend (with every chance that you won't want to give it back either). After the vows you will have the signing of the register... turn on the SB-600, place on the 18-70 and walk up to the couple for this (at this stage get the shutter speed up to 1/60th, ISO 400). Keep these settings as they walk down the aisle. As they get to the door drop the camera back onto Program if you want and keep shooting from there.
About now most people will follow the couple out the door and your only chance of images for the next 10 minutes will be the couple getting mauled by family and friends. Keep the lens at 18mm, get close (within 2 metres) and get candids as they happen. Keep an eye out for some shy kid with a horse shoe and get down to their level as they give it to the bride).
After a few minutes ask the bride and groom to get the family together, make a space for yourself with the family and the coupe and then start shooting the family pics. Dont get everyone looking into the sun. A better option is to either shoot into the sun yourself and use the flash to provide a little fill (just make sure that you use a hood and avoid getting sunlight into the lens) but a safer option is to work on the shady side of the building and again use a little flash as fill.
Family shots include Bride and Groom with -
Brides Mum and Dad
Brides Mum and Dad, brothers and sisters
Both Families together with parents and Bros and Sisters
Grooms Mum and Dad, brothers and sisters
Grooms Mum and Dad
Brides Grandparents
Grooms Grandparents
(Doing it this way you build the image to a large combined family shot and then you work back to small groups again.
Once you have these images out of the way the next step is the formals.
As mentioned by others already, keep an eye out on the background but also determine where your light is coming from. Use the same lighting concept as I mentioned for the family images. Work out of direct sunlight (ie, dont shoot with your back with the sun) unless it is really late in the afternoon. If the sun angle is high you are going to get Panda Eyes (big black eye sockets) while at the same time you may have the group squiting into the light (all those wrinkles never make people look sexy!).
Soft light from about the 45 degree or lower angle is best and so the plan would be to look for a little over hang from a tree but make sure they can see a good gap of sky at that lower angle (always assess light from the subjects position too). If te light is looking good on the couple I would suggest turning the flash off or, alternatively pull back the exposure to -2
on the flash.... otherwise it can be a mood killer (I never use flash on formals).
Sunset will be at 5:15pm on Saturday in your corner of the world and so if sky conditions are good I would be looking for open land about 4.45 and using some direct warm light.
Group shots you will need to get are -
All the group, together
All the group, loose art shot
Guys together
Girls together
Couples (best man with chief brides maid etc.)
Bride and Groom together, full length, half length and art shot
Bride only
Groom only
Again, start big and then let the others go early so you can concentrate on the Bride and Groom (if the light is looking good warn them that you may call them back for one last group shot... play it by ear).
About now you can head back to the reception and start hooking into payment, a well deserved feed and a beer (or two). Keep the camera handy with the flash on and the 18-70mm and shoot candids as you see them but dont go too crazy (your there to have fun).
As for the argument over whether you are going to shoot RAW or JPEGS.... my thoughts to you are, do you really want to spend every night for the next week or two going through and converting all those RAW images? As much as I am a fan for RAW I also believe that if the client is not paying for the conversion, shoot JPEGS. Your camera has a Bracket Exposure
mode and given the chance I would be shooting everything in JPEGS with the Bracket
mode. Shoot at the exposure and then shot one stop over and one stop under, all in the space of a second, bang bang bang. Then all you have to do after the event is pull out the image exposures that good look.
I hear some people bragging about how many images they shoot at a wedding however the aim of the game is quality, not quantity. Get yourself a couple of 1 Gig cards and shoot JPEGS, Large Normal. you will get 550 on a card and so all up you should be able to 1300 images all up including what you have already.
Shooting three shots at the time as you bracket you should discover you'll end up with a total of 400 useable images, enough to cover the day. If you wanted to you could keep the laptop in the back of the car and download before the reception begins (dont format the card with the formals on it ... keep it on you just in case anything should happen to the laptop...). Borrow an extra card or two if you need one. I think that is a better option than spending $500 plus on memory just for the sake of one friends wedding. One thing ... have a spare battery charged and ready to go, even though the D70 does have a great battery. Again, a friend may lend you one of these!
I agree with the others that you will need spare gear however if you own a film camera then my advice is to ask your local lab (the one that you have a good working relationship with) if they can provide you with some film as a just in case... they may credit it back to you if you return the film in the packaging unmarked.
Again, relax and have fun.. dont let the day get to you. A couple of years ago a friend asked me to shoot her wedding, and play the trumpet and sing at the reception... and be the MC.... the last one was the killer for me however I did survive! All the best with the day, Ants!
I think I have written enough for now ...
moderator makes note ... limit this guys word count!