The Depth of Field numbers are scary low

Example: Focused at 8 foot at f1.8 it's in focus from 7' 10" to 8' 2".
Stopped down to f8 it only improves to a range of 7' 5" to 8' 8"
That's 4" in the first case and 15" in the second. (Rounded to the nearest inch.) Okay, 15" isn't terrible, but that kinda kills a lot of the benefits of a fast lense. No free lunches, huh?!
This makes focusing pretty darn critical. I'm almost afraid to use it for some available light wedding pictures I had planned for it.
Is there somewhere online where these DOF specs are available for other Nikkor lenses?